How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 07:46
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
What made you stop being an addict?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
What I need from you?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What happened to your school bully?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Making more friends is a goal.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
What should I do if I love a girl and she apparently doesn't love me?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
What is the most ridiculous obviously false verse in the Bible?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
When do you start "growing old"?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.
Does not procrastinate.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Ask yourself:
Hangs out with loser friends.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
I see lots of pictures of women who have huge clits are they real or what?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Are women as visual as men are?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
That's it for today.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.